Booklist for COMM 145
Author Title Publishing Information Call Number at WCC
Chun, Malcolm Naea. Making peace: hooponopono then & now. Honolulu, Hawaii: Queen Liliuokalani Children's Center; Liliuokalani Trust, 1995. Hawaiian Pamphlet: Group problem solving
Shook, E. Victoria. Hooponopono: contemporary uses of a Hawaiian problem-solving process. [Honolulu]: Published for the East-West Center by the University of Hawaii Press, 1985. Hawaiian: HV98.H3 S477 1985
Aburdene, Patricia. Megatrends for women. New York: Villard Books, 1992. HQ1421 A28 1992
Adamec, Christine A. How to live with a mentally ill person: a handbook of day-to-day strategies. New York: John Wiley, 1996. RC439.5.A33 1996
Adler, Ronald B. Looking out, looking in: interpersonal communication. Fort Worth: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich College Publishers, 1993. BF637.C45 A34 1993
Alessandra, Anthony J. Communicating at work. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1993. HD30.3.A39 1993
Allman, William F. The stone age present: how evolution has shaped modem life: from sex, violence, and language to emotions, morals, and communities. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1994 BF701 A45 1994
Astrachan, Anthony. How men feel : their response to women's demands for equality and power. Garden City, N.Y. : Anchor Press/Doubleday, 1986. HQ1090.3.A88 1986
Axtell, Roger E. Do's and taboos of using English around the world. New York: Wiley, 1995. PE2751 A98 1995
Bassett, Lucinda. From panic to power: proven techniques to calm your anxieties, conquer your fears, and put you in control of your life. New York: HarperCollins, 1995. BF575.A6 B34 1995
Baumeister, Roy F. Breaking hearts : the two sides of unrequited love. New York: Guilford Press, c 1992. BF575.U57 B38 1992
Bennett, Milton. Better together than a-p-a-r-t intercultural communication: an overview. Newtonville, Mass.: Intercultural Resource Corporation, 1996. HM258.B46 1996 videorecording
Bernstein, Albert J. Dinosaur brains : dealing with all those impossible people at work. New York: Wiley, c1989. HF5549.B4518 1989
Berry, Dawn Bradley. The domestic violence sourcebook: everything you need to know. Los Angeles: Lowell House; Chicago: Contemporary Books, 1995. HQ809.B47 1995
Blanchard, Maijorie. Working well: managing for health and high performance. New York: Simon and Schuster, c 1985. HD7261 .1358 1985
Bloomfield, Harold H. Making peace in your stepfamily surviving and thriving as parents and stepparents. New York: Hyperion, c 1993. HQ759.92.1356 1993
Bloomfield, Harold H. Making peace with your parents. New York: Random House, c 1983. HQ755.85 .1358 1983
Brownmiller, Susan. Femininity. Linden Press: New York, 1984. HQ1426.B76.1984
Buss, David M. The evolution of desire: strategies of human mating. New York: BasicBooks, 1994. HQ21 .1395 1994
Byock, Ira. Dying Well: The Prospect of Growth at the End of Life. Riverhead Books: New York, 1997. HQ1073.B96.1997
Campbell, Anne. Men, women, and aggression. New York, NY: BasicBooks, 1993. BF575.A3 C23 1993
Canada, Geoffrey. Fist, Stick, Knife, Gun: A Personal History of Violence in America. Beacon Press: Boston, 1995. HQ734.V55C36.1995
Cantor, Dorothy. Women in Power: The Secrets of Leadership. Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1992. HQ1236.5.U6C36.1992
Carducci, Bernardo. Shyness: A Bold New Approach. HarperCollins: New York, 2000. BF575.B3C37
Catherall, Donald Roy. Back from the brink: a family guide to overcoming traumatic stress. New York: Bantam Books, 1992. RC552.P67C38 1992
Clinton, Hillary Rodharn. It takes a village: and other lessons children teach us. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1996. HQ792.U5 C57 1996
Coles, Robert. Moral Intelligence of Children. Random Hourse: New York, 1997. BF723.M54C63
Colgrove, Melba. How to survive the loss of a love. Los Angeles: Prelude Press, 199 1. BF575.G7 C64 1991
Covey, Stephen R. The seven habits of highly effective people: restoring the character ethic. New York: Simon and Schuster, 1989. BF637.S8 C68 1989
Davis, Joel. Mother tongue: how humans create language. Secaucus, N.J.: Carol Pub. Group, 1993. P106.13295 1993
Demarais, Ann. First Impressions: What You Don't Know About How Others See You Bantam Books: New York, 2004. BF697.5.S44D46.2004
Donkin, Scott W. Sitting on the job: how to survive the stresses of sitting down to work : a practical handbook. Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1989 RC965.03 D66 1989
Dowrick, Stephanie. Intimacy and Solitude: Balacing Closeness and Independence. W. W. Norton: New York, 1994. BF575.I5D68.1994
Druck, Ken. The secrets men keep. Garden City, N.Y. : Doubleday, 1985. HQ1090.3.D78 1985
Duck, Steve. Understanding relationships. New York: Guilford Press, 1991. HM132.138281991
Elgin, Suzette Haden Genderspeak: men, women, and the gentle art of verbal self-defense. New York: J. Wiley, 1993. BF637.V47 E42 1993
Elgin, Suzette Haden. The last word on the gentle art of verbal self-defense. New York: Prentice Hall Press, 1987. BF637.V47 E432 1987
Evans, Patricia. The verbally abusive relationship: how to recognize it and how to respond. Holbrook, MA: B. Adams, 1992. BF637.C74 E83 1992
Faderman, Lillian. Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers. Columbia University Press: New York, 1991. HQ75.6.U5F33.1991
Fast, Julius Body language. New York: Pocket Books, 1971 BF637.C45 F35
Freeman, Lucy. Our inner world of rage : understanding and transforming the power of anger. New York: Continuum, 1990. BF575.A5 F73 1990
Friedman, Meyer Treating type A behavior--and your heart. New York, N.Y.: Knopf, 1984. RC685.C6 F72 1984
Friedman, Meyer Type A behavior and your heart. New York, Knopf, 1974. RC685.I6 F73
Fromm, Erich. The art of loving. New York, Harper [1956] HQ33 Y77
Funderburg, Lise. Black, white, other: biracial Americans talk about race and identity. New York: W. Morrow and Co., 1994. HQ777.9.F86 1994
Gallagher, Winifred. The power of place: how our surroundings shape our thoughts, emotions, and actions. New York: Poseidon Press, 1993. BF353 G355 1993
Gaylin, Willard. The rage within: anger in modem life. New York, N.Y. : Penguin Books, 1989. BF575.A5 G38 1989
Gillespie, Richard. Manufacturing Knowledge: A History of the Hawthorne Experiments. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1991. HD30.42.U5G55.1991
Gilligan, Carol. Ina Different Voice. Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1982. HQ1206.G58.1982
Glass, Lillian. Say it-- right: how to talk in any social or business situation. New York: Putnam's Sons, 1991. P95 G53 1991
Glasser, William Take effective control of your life. New York: Harper & Row, c 1984. BF632.G55 1984
Goldberg, Herb The hazards of being male : surviving the myth of masculine privilege. New York: New American Library, 1977 HQ1067.G63 1977
Goldberg, Herb The inner male : overcoming roadblocks to intimacy. New York: New American Library, 6987. HQ1090.3 G65 1987
Goleman, Daniel. Emotional intelligence. New York: Bantam Books, 1995 BF561 G65 1995
Gray,John. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus: a practical guide for improving communication and getting what you want in your relationships. New York, NY: HarperCollins, 1992. HQ734.G727 1992
Grearson Swaying: essays on intercultural love. Iowa City: University of Iowa Press, 1995. HQ1032.S93 1995
Green, Paul. Get hired!: winning strategies to ace the interview. Austin, Tex.: Bard Books, 1996. HF5549.5.I6 G74 1996
Greer, Germaine The female eunuch. New York, McGraw-Hill [ 1971] HQ1206 G77 1971
Harris, Thomas Anthony I'm OK, you're OK; a practical guide to transactional analysis. New York, Harper & Row [ 1969] RC480.H32
Hartley, Peter. Interpersonal communication. London; New York: Routledge, 1993. BF637.C45 H35 1993
Hay, Louise L. You can heal your life. Santa Monica, CA: Hay House, c 1987. BF637.S4 H38 1987
Heim, Pat. Hardball for women: winning at the game of business. Los Angeles: Lowell House: Chicago: Contemporary Books, 1992. HD6053.H39 1992
Hornstein, Harvey A. A knight in shining armor: understanding men's romantic illusions. New York: Morrow, 1991. BF692.5.H66 1991
Hutchins, David E. Helping relationships and strategies. Pacific Grove, Calif.: Brooks/Cole Pub. Co., 1992. BF637.C6 H85 1991
James, Leon. Road rage and aggressive driving: steering clear of highway warfare. Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000 TL152.35 J35 2000
Jampolsky, Gerald G. Love is the answer: creating positive relationships. New York: Bantam Books, c 1990. HM132.J34 1990
Jeffers, Susan J. Opening our hearts to men. New York: Fawcett Columbine, 1989. HQ1206.J44 1989
Jeffers, Susan J. Feel the fear and do it anyway. New York: Fawcett Columbine, 1988 BF575.F2 J44 1988
Kanter, Arnold B. The essential book of interviewing: everything you need to know from both sides of the table. New York: Times Books, 1995. HF5549.5.16 K358 1995
King, Larry. How to talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere: the secrets of good communication. New York: Crown Publishers, 1994. BJ2121 X47 1994
Kivel, Paul. Men's work: how to stop the violence that tears our lives apart. New York: Ballantine Books, 1992. HN90.V5 K5 1992
Kroeger, Otto. Type Talk at Work. Dell: New York, 2002. BF698.9.O3K68.2002
Lazarus, Richard S. Passion and reason: making sense of our emotions. New York : Oxford University Press, 1994. BF561 L38 1994
Leder, Jane Mersky. Brothers & sisters: how they shape our lives. New York: St. Martin's Press, 199 1. BF723.S43 L43 1991
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor. The dance of intimacy: a woman's guide to courageous acts of change in key relationships. New York, N.Y.: Harper & Row, c 1989. HQ1206.L446 1989
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor. The dance of deception: pretending and truth-telling in women's lives. New York: HarperCollins Publishers, c 1993. HQ1206.L445 1993
Levine, Robert. Power of Persuasion: How We're Bought and Sold. John Wiley: New York, 2003. BF637.P4L48
Lewis, David. The body language of children: how children talk before they can speak. London: Souvenir Press, 1996. BF723.16 L415 1996
Lisle, Laurie. Without Child: Challenging the Stigma of Childlessness. Ballantine Books: New York, 1996. HQ755.8.L57.1996
Marlin, Emily. Relationships in recovery: healing strategies for couples and families. New York: Perennial Library, 1990. HV5132.M347 1990
Martin, Judith. Miss Manners' basic training: communication. New York: Crown Publishers, 1997. BJ1854.M35 1997
May, Rollo. Cry for Myth. W.W. Norton: New York, 1990. RC489.M96M39.1990
McCallister, Linda. I wish I'd said that: how to talk your way out of trouble and into success. New York: Wiley, 1992. BF637.C45 M2 1992
McKay, Matthew. When anger hurts : quieting the storm within. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, c1989. BF575.A5 M3 1989
Mellody, Pia. Facing codependence : what it is, where it comes from, how it sabotages our lives. San Francisco: Perennial Library, c 1989. RC569.5.C63 M45 1989
Miller, Rowland S. Embarrassment: poise and peril in everyday life. New York: Guilford Press, 1996. BF575.1353 M55 1996
Morse, Donald R. Stress for success : A holistic approach to stress and its management. New York: Van Nostrand Reinhold, c1979. BF575.S75 M67
Mosse, George L. The image of man: the creation of modem masculinity. New York: Oxford University Press, 1996. HQ1090.M67 1996
Murphy-Milano, Susan. Defending our lives: getting away from domestic violence and staying safe. New York: Anchor Books, 1996. HV6626.2.M87 1996
Naifeh, Steven W. Why can't men open up? : overcoming men's fear of intimacy. New York: C.N. Potter: Distributed by Crown Publishers, c1984. HQ1090.N34 1984
none Violence in dating relationships: emerging social issues. New York: Praeger, 1989. HQ801.83.V56 1989
none Cross cultural communication in diverse settings. New York, N.Y.: distributed by Insight Media, 1993. HM258.C76 1993 videorecording
none Just get it. Boulder, Colo.: Morris Massey Associates, 1994. HM132.J96 1994 videorecording
Norwood, Robin. Women who love too much: when you keep wishing and hoping he'll change. Los Angeles: J.P. Tarcher; New York Distributed by St. Martin's Press, 6985. HQ1206.N77 1985
Olson, Ken. The art of hanging loose in an uptight world: featuring psychological exercises for personal. Phoenix, Ariz. : O'Sullivan, Woodside, c 1974. BF637.S8 047
Pearsall, Derek. Pleasure Prescription. Alameda, CA: Hunter House, 1996. BF515.P32.1996
Peck, M. Scott. A world waiting to be born: civility rediscovered. New York: Bantam Books, 1993. HD58.7.P42 1993
Petrocelli, William. Sexual harassment on the job. Berkeley: Nolo Press, 1992. KF3467.Z9P47 1992
Plotnik, Arthur. The elements of expression: putting thoughts into words. New York: Henry Holt, 1996. P95 P6 1996
Reardon, Kathleen Kelley. They don't get it, do they?: communication in the workplace--closing the gap between women and men. Boston: Little, Brown, 1995. HD6060.6.R43 1995
Ritter, Henry. From Man to Man. Harper and Row: San Francisco, 1979. HQ36.R54.1979
Rossi, Ernest Lawrence. The 20-minute break: using the new science of ultradian rhythms. Los Angeles: J.P. Tarcher, 1991. RA785.R674 1991
Rusk, Tom. The power of ethical persuasion: winning through understanding in difficult communications. New York: Viking, 1993. BF637.N4 R87 1993
Sacks, Oliver. Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat. Harper and Row: New York, 1987. RC351.S195.1987
Sara Bullard. Teaching Tolerance. Doubleday: New York, 1996. BF723.P75B85.1996
Schiff, Harriet Sarnoff. How did I become my parent's parent? New York: Viking, 1996. HQ1063.6.S35 1996
Seligman, Martin E. P. Learned optimism. New York: A.A. Knopf, 1991. BJ1477.S45 1990
Seligman, Martin E. P. What you can change and what you can't: the complete guide to successful selfimprovement. New York: Knopf, 1994. BF637.C4 S45 1994
Shachtman, Tom. The Inarticulate Society: Eloquence and Culture in America. The Free Press: New York, 1995. P95.S49.1995
Shaw, Eva. What to do when a loved one dies: a practical and compassionate guide to dealing with death on life's terms. Irvine, CA: Dickens Press, 1994. BF789.134 S47 1994
Sheehy, Gail. New passages: mapping your life across time. New York: Random House, 1995. HQ1064.U5 S52 1995
Signorile, Michelangelo. Outing yourself- how to come out as lesbian or gay to your family, friends, and coworkers. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1996. HQ76.3.U5 S54 1996
Smith, Manuel J. When I say no, I feel guilty. Hollywood, Calif: Cally Curtis, c 199 1. BF575.A85 W567 videorecording
Smith, Manuel J. When I say no, I feel guilty : how to cope--using the skills of systematic assertive therapy. New York: Dial Press, 1975. BF575.A85 S63
Staal, Stephanie. The love they lost: living with the legacy of our parents' divorce. New York: Delacorte Press, c2000. HQ777.5 . S7 2000
Stone, Douglas. Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. Penguin Books: New York, 2000. BF637.C45S78.2000
Tannen, Deborah and Robert Bly. Men & women talking together. New York, NY: Mystic Fire Video, Inc., 1993. BF637.C45 M4 1993 videorecording
Tannen, Deborah. Talking from 9 to 5: how women's and men's conversational styles affect who gets heard, who gets credit, and what gets done at work. New York: W. Morrow, 1994. HF5718.T36 1994
Tannen, Deborah. That's not what I meant! : how conversational style makes or breaks relationships. New York: Ballantine Books, c 1987. P95.45 T364 1987
Tannen, Deborah. You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation. William Morrow and Company: New York, 1990. HQ734.T24.1990
Tannen, Deborah. I Only Say This Because I Love You. Random House: New York, 2001. HQ734.T23.2001
Tavris, Carol. The mismeasure of woman. New York: Simon & Schuster, c 1992. HQ1206.T28 1992
Tavris, Carol. Anger, the misunderstood emotion. New York: Simon and Schuster, c 1982. BF575.A5 T38 1982
Turner, Johanna. Made for life: coping, competence and cognition. London; New York: Methuen, 1980. BF723.E6 T948
Vaughan, Diane. Uncoupling: turning points in intimate relationships. New York: O xford University Press, 1986. HQ814.V38 1986
Visser, Margaret. Rituals of Dinner: The Origins, Evolution, Eccentricities, and Meaning of Table Manners. Grove: New York, 1991. BJ2041.V57.1991
Walther, George R. Power talking: 50 ways to say what you mean and get what you want. New York: G.P. Putnam's Sons, 1991 HF5718.W36 1991
Webster, Harriet. Family secrets: how telling and not telling affect our children, our relationships, and our lives. Reading, Mass.: Addison-Wesley Pub.Co., 1991. HQ734.W414 1991
West, James W. The Betty Ford Center book of answers: help for those struggling with substance abuse and for the people who love them. New York: Pocket Books, 1997. RC564.29.W47 1997
Whyte, Martin King. Dating, mating, and marriage. New York: Aldine de Gruyter, 1990. HQ728.W526 1990
York, Phyllis. Toughlove solutions. Garden City, N.Y. : Doubleday, 1984. HQ796.Y575 1984